The 3 Things Your Child Learns from Yelling: James Lehmen, Total Transformation
1. Your child learns that his parents can lose control—and that by pushing the right buttons, he can get you to lose control. Make no bones about it, once you've started using yelling as a behavioral management tool, you’ve told your child everything he needs to know about pushing your buttons.
2. Your child learns that power is how things get done. More precisely, he learns that overpowering somebody is the easiest way to get things done.
3. Your child learns how to shut you off. Mentally and emotionally, he quickly learns how to stop listening when the yelling starts.
There are two ways people shut down emotionally during an argument: they either stop paying attention and reject what they’re hearing, or they start yelling back. When people yell, usually they are not feeling anything but anger, hostility or frustration. And during a screaming match, certainly no one is doing much—if any—listening. Read Full Article;
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